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~ Am i really that bad? ~
10 messages. 5 contributors. Last post on Nov 09, 2009 4:14PM.
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Okay so heres the thing, I went out with one of my best friends, Andrew, and we went out for 6 months. I made the mistake of breaking up with him when i truly didn't want to but i was confused and i didn't know what to do. I cant get over him b/c i go to his house and see him everyday. Its been a long time now, im a junior and lonely. But i have this idea in my head that no one else is going to like me because he has no problem getting a gf, almost every girl wants to go out with him but i cant get a boy friend. I feel like im nothing, im jst someone whos not going to be happy again. Im shy around people i dont know so im kind of quiet all the time, the only people who know the real me are my friends so i feel like people are judging me from what they see and they dont want to realy get to know me. Plus some boys make me feel like im ugly, just b/c i dont have time to get all dressed up for skool they dont even want to look at me. Am i ugly? is there something wrong with me? What should i do?
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no you are not ugly and there is nothing wrong with you people are just wierd like that
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so why is it so hard for me?
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You say you go to his house everyday... is there any possibility of you and him rekindling the fire?
Your not ugly, you just may not be some guys "type" or the guys secretly like you just well dont have the balls to ask you out...
But anyways from what I have read, you should attempt to go back out with your ex... assuming there wasn't any problems and it was just a confused moment in which you ended the relationship. Was there a reason why you broke up with him?
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Well I have no choice but to go to his house everyday b/c i basically live w/ him b/c theres alot of problems at home and he is my best friend, i like to think we can rekindle the fire but the reason why i broke up with him is an issue. I broke up with him because i was 15 (no prob for me) and my mom didn't really want me to have a boyfriend but that wasn't really a big deal until my mom told me she didn't want me to go out with a boy thats black, which he is, so that made him feel wierd. I wanted to tell my mom but she scared the living hell out of me. I didn't want to tell her so we were going out behined her back, then i felt so confuzed because he tried to force me into telling her when i wasn't ready so oneday it got to much for me and i broke up with him when i wasn't ready to let him go. We still like each other but my mom is an issue and its like all of that just changed everything.
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dont give a crap what your mom says if you like him then go out with him, only you can know when your ready and if you realy like this guy then you are ready
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do you like him? tell him.
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he knows i still like him
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just try to keep your head and try not to think about the issue so much
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