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~ I need help!!!!! ~
16 messages. 8 contributors. Last post on Jan 12, 2010 10:18AM.
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There is this guy in school that i like. but the issue is he has a girlfriend. his girlfriend is in college and he never acts like he is dating someone. he always sends mixed signals and i don't want to be the other girl that ruins their relationship. so if any one has and words of wisdom for me i would love to hear it<3
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Once a cheater always a cheater. Fact is he is dating someone and does not want to show it to you or express it. Imagine it this way, if you were dating a guy and he was going everywhere saying he was single and did not have a relationship with anyone. Wouldn't you be upset with it? Well fact is he is doing it now, he will do it with you just like he is with the other girl. Whoever she is I hope she learns quick.
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You have to know that when you know a guy has a girlfriend... Catch him in the lie. If he lies more just say that you saw them together. that will end the mixed signals and you wont be confused. Another thing tell the girl that he flirts with others
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you may like him, but would you really want to date a cheater, knowng he could just as easily do the same to you? trust your heart:)
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there both pretty good points. its just hard for me to deal with it
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Yes, I highly understand and I know it's hard. In the end though it will be ok. Years from now you'll look back and just laugh for thinking he is 'the one' or 'a great guy.' I'm not making fun of your judging, I'm just pointing it out saying you'll probably forget him and you'll find a true guy one of these days rather than a guy that will cheat on you.
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all he does is deny it. even if i did tell him i saw him and her together. why cant guys straight up tell the truth.??????
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hey i hope you dont mean all guys
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Because most but not all guys don't like to be tied down to a girl they don't see everyday because they won't be able to show her off to his friends. There are also some guys that underestimate how smart girls are and the thinks that he'll be able to decieve the girl at school by lying and saying that he's single.
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of course i dont mean all guys. there are alot of guys out thee that are complete sweet hearts, but the ones i fall for are complete jerks.
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hmm ithink i have a couple cousins in pennslvania, il have to look that up,anyway well i am pretty nice but i cant find a single girl that i can talk to where i live they are ALL mean or taken. aand ive tried waiting and looking, i hate living in vegas
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oh im sorry:( pennsylvania is quite boring. excpecially the town i live in. lol
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Ouch. Must be rough living in central pa. No offense but the suburbs of philly is where its at
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haha ok i'll go with that lol. but middletown is boring for sure. :)
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well my advice to you is.. follow your heart.. no one likes to be the other girl i kno... but what do you truly like bout this guy? his smooth talkin? his looks? the way he makes you laugh?? This is all a front.. they are right once a cheater he will always have a peice of him that will want to cheat.. Some men are not good at change andoften treat new girlfriends like the old ones in time... same with women... but our is a blame game... You will often have feelings he is doing to you what he did to his girlfriend.. so i would say.. take some time to think and get over this guy.. another will walk you way soon :)
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